Not sure what you know about these sort of cars, but this is the standard info for silvias
yep .9 - 1.0 is about normal for a SR once you have done a turbo back exhaust, FMIC, airfilter.
yes colder plugs will make a difference, also to the engines ability to resist det, colder plugs should be 7 for the boost you are running, make sure you gap them to .8mm even if they are iridium's
If you haven't got one get a EBC